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"You're single, not sick. Enjoy the ride!"

  • Are you enjoying or enduring living single?
  • Have you put your life on hold until you meet Mr. Right?
  • Are you feeling lonely and alone because you don't have a date?

      Coach Yvonne has come to your rescue! Yvonne is the official cheerleader and spokeswoman for single women all over the world. I am here to support you, be your cheerleader, advocate and sounding board in those difficult times. I am here to put a stop to every negative stereotype that single women have endured. There is nothing wrong with you because you are single. There may be areas of your life that need buffing up, and I can certainly help you with that, but don't think for one second that there is something wrong with you because you don't have a man.

      Availableandhappy.com was created to encourage single women to enjoy living single and to squeeze every drop of juice out of her single life. Living single is not a time to go from one bad relationship to the next nor is it a holding pattern for you to sit and wait for matrimony. Instead, it is a time for you to utilize your God given talents and abilities to make a difference in the world and in God's kingdom.

      Why the name Available and Happy? Simple! The meaning of the words individually and collectively speak my message and mission. Webster's dictionary defines Available as present and ready for immediate use, while the definition of Happy is glad, pleased, joyous, and enthusiastic. What a great way to be!

      Words of Wisdom

      "We convince ourselves that life will be better after we get married, have a baby then another. Then we are frustrated that the kids aren't old enough and we'll be more content when they are grown. After that, we're frustrated that we have teenagers to deal with. We will certainly be happy when they are out of that stage. We tell ourselves that our life will be complete when our spouse gets his or her act together, when we get a nicer car, are able to go on a nice vacation or when we retire. The truth is, there's no better time to be happy than right now. If not now, when?" Crystal Boyd

      Success Stories

      "Hey Coach Yvonne! I just wanted to share some wonderful news with you. I'm engaged! We are excited about being engaged and planning our life together. Hopefully you remember coaching us via telephone a few years ago when you were in NY. We are planning for a wedding sometime in the first quarter of 2008. I really enjoy your E-zine. I love the issues you address and you always have a rational way of responding to the questions. I send it to my single girlfriends all the time." Kendra and Brock (kendra_ny1@yahoo.com)

      "Yvonne, You are doing quite a service. I have been happily married to my husband for 19 years, and at 38 I consider it quite an accomplishment however, even being happily married I find advice and inspiration in your newsletters that I have not found anywhere else -- you are a remarkable woman and your mission with regard to the Ask Coach Yvonne E-zine and Available and Happy endeavors are outstanding." Travis in Oregon (travisli@comcast.net )



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      • Top 5 Tips for Singles


      1. Be "The One." Many single people are looking for "the one" but are you "the one?" Would you want to be in a relationship with you?

      2. Be the Chooser not the Chosen. Many of us are chosen to be in relationships only to regret saying yes later. Take back your power and say "No" to what you don't want so that you can say, "YES" to what you do want.

      3. Go out, have fun and let go of the outcome. Going out expecting to meet the man of your dreams can be very disappointing. Be open to meeting lots of wonderful people instead.

      4. Release the PAUSE button. Don't put your life on hold waiting for a relationship to happen. Be a happy and successful single person living the life that you really want now. Today is all you have.

      5. Use your head and your heart simultaneously. Don't let your heart lead the way solo. Make your relationship choices CONSCIOUSLY; the same way you make all of the other important choices in your life. It's still exciting!